what moral can we understand from this letter gals????

actress Jiah Khan's suicide letter allegedly addressed to Suraj Pancholi. This letter was shared to the media by Jiah's mother through their publicists.

 "I don't know how to say this to you but I might as well now as I have nothing to lose. I've already lost everything. If you're reading this I might have already left or about to leave. I am broken inside. You may not have known this but you affected me deeply to a point where I lost myself in loving you. Yet you tortured me everyday. These days I see no light I wake up not wanting to wake up. There was a time I saw my life with you, a future with you. But you shattered my dreams. I feel dead inside. I've never given so much of myself to someone or cared so much. You returned my love with cheating and lies. It didn't matter how many gifts I gave you or how beautiful

I looked for you. I was scared of getting pregnant but I gave myself completely the pain you have caused me everyday has destroyed every bit of me, destroyed my soul. I can't eat or sleep or think or function. I am running away from everything. The career is not even worth it anymore.

 When I first met you I was driven, ambitious and disciplined. Then I fell for you, a love I thought would bring out the best in me. I don't know why destiny brought us together. After all the pain, the rape, the abuse, the torture I have seen previously I didn't deserve this. I didn't see any love or commitment from you. I just became increasingly scared that you would hurt me mentally or physically. Your life was about partying and women. Mine was you and my work. If I stay here I will crave you and miss you. So I am kissing my 10-year career and dreams goodbye. I never told you but I received a message about you. About you cheating on me. I chose to ignore it, decided to trust you. You embarrassed me. I never went out, I never went with anyone else. I am a loyal person. I never met anyone with Karthik I just wanted you to feel how you make me feel constantly. No other woman will give you as much as I did or love you as much as I did. I can write that in my blood. Things were looking up for me here, but is it worth it when you constantly feel the pain of heartbreak when the person you love wants to abuse you or threatens to hit you or cheats on you telling other girls they are beautiful or throws you out of their house when you have no where to go and you've come to them out of love or when they lie to your face or they make you chase after them in their car. Or disrespects their family. You never even met my sister. I bought your sister presents. You tore my soul. I have no reason to breathe anymore. All I wanted was love. I did everything for you. I was working for us. But you were never my partner. My future is destroyed my happiness snatched away from me. I always wished the best for you, was ready to invest what little money I had in your betterment. You never appreciated my love, Kicked me in the face. I have no confidence or self esteem left, whatever talent whatever ambition you took it all away. You destroyed my life. It hurt me so much that I waited for you for ten days and you didn't bother buying me something.

Bus Accident lo Brain damage aypoina chetta chimpanzee Face uu Veeduu..Thuuuuuu....asalu Y why yaa?? ...so much of insanity Madness..ee dash fellow kanna pedda pudingu neku dorakaneleda??dorikey chance ye leda??? entooooooo ee janalu

 The Goa trip was my birthday present but even after you cheated I still spent on you. I aborted our baby when it hurt me deeply. You destroyed my Christmas and my birthday dinner when I came back. When I tried my hardest to make your birthday special. You chose to be away from me on Valentines Day. You promised me once we made it to one year we would get engaged. All you want in life is partying, your women and your selfish motives. All I wanted was you and my happiness you took both away from me. I spent money on you selflessly you would throw in my face. When I would cry for you. I have nothing left in this world to live for after this. I wish you had loved me like I loved you. I dreamt of our future. I dreamt of our success. I leave this place with nothing but broken dreams and empty promises. All I want now is to go to sleep and never wake up again. I am nothing. I had everything. I felt so alone even while with you. You made me feel alone and vulnerable. I am so much more than this."

http://archanavedantam.blogspot.in/2012/10/what-gives-happiness-attitude-way-we.html

What makes us happy in Life is what 

matters in the end,not what we 

acquire.

http://www.speakingtree.in/spiritual-slideshow/seekers/wellness/the-case-of-jiah-khan-why-suicide-happens-197630/13422

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Should we keep loving the people and try to keep finding place in someone's heart who always leave us every now and then for something more wonderful (like job, family, other person who is more appealing, etc.) ? Why do we punish ourselves with mental trauma of being left alone with troubles in bad or struggling times and still clinch to re-unite again whenever they return to us? What should be done to have mental peace and a prosperous life? What is the best solution for everybody's happiness?

Dear Sweta,

It is always a challenge with wanting a specific someone to align themselves in a specific manner, so that we may be happy. It is really not upto us to find a place in someone else's heart. You can try, there are lots of books written on how to influence people's mind to get what you want etc. However, in its essence, the need to please, to be wanted, the craving for acceptance etc. comes from a place of lack, it is a child of pain and not joy. We must examine this pain in more depth.

While it is upto others to love us or not, it is completely upto us to that we love ourselves unconditionally, so much so that there is no neediness from a specific person. This is where we need to do the work. Our energy has to shift from wanting, needing to feeling abundant and complete by ourselves. This is not to be mistaken to be a resentful "I don't need anyone". This is also not "I'll keep giving and giving with the hope that I'll get back", which is also lack based energy. It is more of a "I genuinely have much to give, and I find abundant joy and happiness in it".

When we become abundant from within, any relationship becomes a place to share your joy, and it does not matter as much as to how a specific other person reciprocates. However, when the energy shifts from neediness to abundance, the universe soon reciprocates in kind. Suddenly, you find everyone cooperating with you, reflecting back the love you so craved. Sometimes, this love can come from the same person, or sometimes it may be from someone else who is aligned with the new, more positive you.

Thus, the prosperous life on the outside is always a function of prosperity within. Remember that "the other" is not separate from you - it is in fact a reflection of you.

With Love,
Sudhir

By J Rogers on this ~ ""Whenever you see the soul or spirit of another person, you unconsciously project onto them behaviors that you think are consistent with what soul or spirit mean to you. When their behavior varies from your definition of soul-centered essence, you feel betrayed, let down or somehow lied to."
So we must try and enrich our being so much that the universal divinity expresses through us and then each soul-spirit that we meet gets aligned with ours.

"How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours." ~Wayne Dyer