If i wanna be free...i gotta be me

Not the Me...that you think i should be

Not the Me..my wife thinks i should be

Not the Me,i think..my kids think i should be
Someone's Opinion of You..Need not be ur Reality

If i wanna be free...i gotta be me

and I better know who Me is..

- Bob proctor

Okka Kshanam Video Song || Rajanna Movie || Nagarjuna, Sneha

https://youtu.be/MGE_V4fI3tA


porante velapu ledu..... bathukante theepi ledu

kada daaka alupu ledu ..chavanna bayam ledu....okka kshanam

behaviours out of weaknesses

Impatience ,Insecurity ,Intolerance , Selfishness ,  Control freaking , Competitiveness , Abruptness , ,Stereotyping , Aggressiveness , being Critical / Judgmental , Emotional ,Hypersensitivity , Jealousy , Laziness , Self - consciousness , Indecisiveness , Shyness , Codependency , Melodramatic behavior , Dishonesty , Diorganised /scattered , Gossipy , Irresponsible ,Superficial , Attention seeking , Conceitedness/Ego ,Stubbornness , Narrow mindedness , Rigidity , Pessimism ,Pedantic , Emotionally being closed ,Vulnerability to Addictions,Cunningness , Non committing ,Inconsistency , Self righteousness , Interfering ,Worrying,Unrealistic ,Secretive ,Cynical ,Skeptical , Manipulative , Greed , extreme Poverty consciousness ,Intimidating ,Unforgiving ,Temperamental / moody 

what moree ?????
yep i could spot mine .. !!!

The first step in a person's salvation is the knowledge of their sin

 - Lucius Annaeus

He who owns a hundred sheep must fight with fifty wolves -- plutarchus

According to Dunn and Norton, recent research on happiness suggests that the most satisfying way of using money is to invest in others.

Wealth is a relative term.Uncertainties in life remain regardless of how much money and things we possess.Norton’s research also indicates that the assumption people make about more money leading to more happiness is simply wrong. “Wealthy individuals–whether worth $1 million or $10 million–are not happier as their wealth increases,” according to Norton. In fact, it’s possible that adding money to money may actually lead to experiencing less happiness.Money does decrease sadness but decreased sadness doesn't lead to happiness.



$ Studies show you’ll get more contentment from putting cash toward experiences (like vacations) than material things (like a new TV).
 
$ Spending on other people actually generates more happiness than splurging on yourself.
 
$ Likewise, budgeting time to build social connections is a smarter happiness “investment” than making and spending money, research suggests.
 
$ Lending out possessions can help you enjoy them more once you get them back [ yee books & money mostly don't come back...hahaha ]
 
$ It’s best not to focus on money too much. While making more of it might have benefits, but obsessing over it stops you from savoring many important aspects of your life.

Uncertainty is not a result of ignorance or the partiality of human knowledge, but is a characteristic of the world itself  -- Taylor 

-Multiple sources

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ha ha haa yee ... Egg.jet.li

After much research, consideration & experimentation, I have decided that adulthood is Not for Me.
 Thank your for the opportunity.

- tina Twitter

 

I'm in love with my mom,dad and sister

 ONLY people on earth on whom i can have my blind faith so deeply 

I'm learning how to walk away from people and situations that threaten my peace of mind, self-respect, or my self-worth
- unknown

Happy Republic day

I won't be a friend but yes, i will be a well wisher....Amen

_/\_  PLEDGE _/\_

India is my country and all Indians are my brothers and sisters.

I love my country and I am proud of its rich and varied heritage. 

I shall always strive to be worthy of it.

I shall give respect to my parents, teachers and elders and treat everyone with courtesy.

To my country and my people, I pledge my devotion.

In their well being and prosperity alone, lies my happiness. 

(this always reminds me my school days..i will stick to my words religiously )

hidden valley ,Sandy city !!!

why ?? people always say needs are mutual...then..

- then what is this ? why men do not fear like women do ? 

why?

 we all are same human beings righttt ???

 Are needs not mutual ? ( No i guess )

are men having more advantage ?

A guy named superman got into marriage , became father of 2 children and got out of marriage.He has the same freedoms to go in & come out..yes ? He is the same superman before marriage & even after decades of  marriage

is it the same for a girl ??

 Can a gal having children kick her hubby off her life as easily as a man can ? why NO ? 

what is the guarantee that someone who is honest today will remain honest tomorrow ?

what is the guarantee that someone who is alive today will not die tomorrow ..(including unexpected accidental deaths as shown in JOURNEY movie )

What type of Risks are WORTH taking ? and WHY

# yeah... i know tat i'm mad #

A materialistic mind always reacts, 

while a stable mind sedately Observes 

- unknown
 (came across while reading some article in speaking tree)

Difference between competitive exam & College exam ....

In college exams
 

Question:  How many balls are there in an over?

 Answer: 6

Full Marks


 If this was a PROFESSIONAL Exam question

The answer would be WRONG and the examiner’s comment in the suggested answers would be

“Most of the students answered the questions. However, students have not understood the questions correctly. Answer points to a lack of in-depth understanding and conceptual clarity on the subject. Correct answer is 1 ball which is delivered 6 times, if the umpire(as defined under bye law 19 of Rule 2) did not declare any no ball in all those deliveries.

In case the umpire, as defined above, declares a No Ball as defined in the Byelaws 24 Rule 3 of the Laws of Cricket (Lords), then there will be an additional ball delivered, using the same ball, for every no ball declared by the umpire.

Note that such additional balls will not be counted towards the number of balls”.

 Similarly for a wide ball under Byelaw 25 Rule 3 of the Laws of Cricket (Lords) an additional ball will be delivered for every wide ball declared by the umpire.

 Thus keeping in view the Rules 19, 24 25 of the Laws of Cricket(Lords) the answer is 1 ball.

However, if the ball used for the said deliveries suffers or undergoes such transformation or such other changes which, the umpire, on an appeal being made by the bowler, deems unfit for use, the ball may be changed/replaced with another one. Only in such a case, will there be use of multiple balls in an over.

(The student may assume that the batsmen did not hit a sixer, thereby forcing the ball to go out of the park causing another ball to be used ) 

 

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Question: How many balls are there in an over? Answer: 6

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OO ALL CA's as they can relate to this and all non CAs who might find an explanation as to why CAs are like that only…….. Question: How many balls are there in an over? Answer: 6 If this were a CA exam question the answer would be WRONG and the examiner’s comment in the suggested answers would be “Most of the students answered the questions. However, students have not understood the questions correctly. Answer points to a lack of in-depth understanding and conceptual clarity on the subject. Correct answer is 1 ball which is delivered 6 times, if the umpire did not declare any no ball in all those deliveries. In case the umpire declares a No Ball as defined in the Byelaws 24 Rule 3 of the Laws of Cricket (Lords), then there will be an additional ball delivered for every no ball declared by the umpire. Similarly for wide under Byelaw 25 Rule 3 of the Laws of Cricket (Lords) an additional ball will be delivered for every wide ball declared by the umpire. Note that such additional balls will not be counted towards the number of balls”.

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Question: How many balls are there in an over? Answer: 6 If this were a CA exam question the answer would be WRONG and the examiner’s comment in the suggested answers would be “Most of the students answered the questions. However, students have not understood the questions correctly. Answer points to a lack of in-depth understanding and conceptual clarity on the subject. Correct answer is 1 ball which is delivered 6 times, if the umpire did not declare any no ball in all those deliveries. In case the umpire declares a No Ball as defined in the Byelaws 24 Rule 3 of the Laws of Cricket (Lords), then there will be an additional ball delivered for every no ball declared by the umpire. Similarly for wide under Byelaw 25 Rule 3 of the Laws of Cricket (Lords) an additional ball will be delivered for every wide ball declared by the umpire. Note that such additional balls will not be counted towards the number of balls”.

Read more at: http://www.caclubindia.com/forum/how-many-balls-in-1-over-115697.asp

Question: How many balls are there in an over? Answer: 6 If this were a CA exam question the answer would be WRONG and the examiner’s comment in the suggested answers would be “Most of the students answered the questions. However, students have not understood the questions correctly. Answer points to a lack of in-depth understanding and conceptual clarity on the subject. Correct answer is 1 ball which is delivered 6 times, if the umpire did not declare any no ball in all those deliveries. In case the umpire declares a No Ball as defined in the Byelaws 24 Rule 3 of the Laws of Cricket (Lords), then there will be an additional ball delivered for every no ball declared by the umpire. Similarly for wide under Byelaw 25 Rule 3 of the Laws of Cricket (Lords) an additional ball will be delivered for every wide ball declared by the umpire. Note that such additional balls will not be counted towards the number of balls”.

Read more at: http://www.caclubindia.com/forum/how-many-balls-in-1-over-115697.asp

Question: How many balls are there in an over? Answer: 6 If this were a CA exam question the answer would be WRONG and the examiner’s comment in the suggested answers would be “Most of the students answered the questions. However, students have not understood the questions correctly. Answer points to a lack of in-depth understanding and conceptual clarity on the subject. Correct answer is 1 ball which is delivered 6 times, if the umpire did not declare any no ball in all those deliveries. In case the umpire declares a No Ball as defined in the Byelaws 24 Rule 3 of the Laws of Cricket (Lords), then there will be an additional ball delivered for every no ball declared by the umpire. Similarly for wide under Byelaw 25 Rule 3 of the Laws of Cricket (Lords) an additional ball will be delivered for every wide ball declared by the umpire. Note that such additional balls will not be counted towards the number of balls”

Read more at: http://www.caclubindia.com/forum/how-many-balls-in-1-over-115697.asp

Question: How many balls are there in an over? Answer: 6 If this were a CA exam question the answer would be WRONG and the examiner’s comment in the suggested answers would be “Most of the students answered the questions. However, students have not understood the questions correctly. Answer points to a lack of in-depth understanding and conceptual clarity on the subject. Correct answer is 1 ball which is delivered 6 times, if the umpire did not declare any no ball in all those deliveries. In case the umpire declares a No Ball as defined in the Byelaws 24 Rule 3 of the Laws of Cricket (Lords), then there will be an additional ball delivered for every no ball declared by the umpire. Similarly for wide under Byelaw 25 Rule 3 of the Laws of Cricket (Lords) an additional ball will be delivered for every wide ball declared by the umpire. Note that such additional balls will not be counted towards the number of balls”

Read more at: http://www.caclubindia.com/forum/how-many-balls-in-1-over-115697.asp

Question: How many balls are there in an over? Answer: 6 If this were a CA exam question the answer would be WRONG and the examiner’s comment in the suggested answers would be “Most of the students answered the questions. However, students have not understood the questions correctly. Answer points to a lack of in-depth understanding and conceptual clarity on the subject. Correct answer is 1 ball which is delivered 6 times, if the umpire did not declare any no ball in all those deliveries. In case the umpire declares a No Ball as defined in the Byelaws 24 Rule 3 of the Laws of Cricket (Lords), then there will be an additional ball delivered for every no ball declared by the umpire. Similarly for wide under Byelaw 25 Rule 3 of the Laws of Cricket (Lords) an additional ball will be delivered for every wide ball declared by the umpire. Note that such additional balls will not be counted towards the number of balls”

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IndiasGotCourage - Mountain Dew Real Heroes

abcdefg.H. H .H

 Hedonic treadmill, also known as hedonic adaptation, is the observed tendency of humans to quickly return to a relatively stable level of happiness despite major positive or negative events or life changes. According to this theory, as a person makes more money, expectations and desires rise in tandem, which results in no permanent gain in happiness.

#  Everything Eventually gets back to the base line of Emotions 

#  In Life, Come what may ....you will eventually learn dealing with it

# Objective circumstance do not bring Happieness...

what is objective & subjective ?

- -> Subjective -->  how u look at something /outlook/ ur attitude -->  Happiness

-

--> Objective --> THING... object..something  @ can give ;  here today gone tomorrow type of happiness

 

* Headey (2008) concluded that an internal locus of control and having "positive" personality traits (notably low neuroticism) are the two most significant factors affecting one's subjective well-being. 

* Headey also found that adopting "non-zero sum" goals, those which enrich one's relationships with others and with society as a whole (i.e. family-oriented and altruistic goals), increase the level of subjective well-being.

 Conversely, attaching importance to zero-sum life goals (career success, wealth, and social status) will have a small but nevertheless statistically significant negative impact on people's overall subjective well-being (even though the size of a household's disposable income does have a small, positive impact on subjective well-being). Duration of one's education seems to have no direct bearing on life satisfaction

[ Non-zero-sum Means.. a situation in which the interacting parties' aggregate gains and losses is either less than or more than zero ]
 

@  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedonic_treadmill

A consciousness of wrongdoing is the first step to salvation

- Stoicism

LOVED It ......

Today I escaped anxiety. Or no, I discarded it, because it was within me, in my own perceptions
- not outside.

- Marcus Aurelius

KevvvvVVV

ha ha haa

A girl who returns Gandhigiri with ONLY Gandhigiri

and distrusts even those who say " even god i trust after you " 

Would be crazy enough in Avoiding maximum problems on earth

 There are things known and there are things unknown, and in between are the doors of perception
- Aldous Huxley

Balavanthuda naakaemani
Baluvuratho nigrahinchi palukuta maela?
 

Balavanthamaina sarpamu
Chalicheemala chaethajikki chaavadhe sumathee

The snake that believed that Might Is Always Right &  

behaved with all the supremacy died in the hands of  little black ants

- sumathi satakam 

I was with you from soo many years and i really dunno when i had fallen in love ...would i have been alive today without u ? my chweet chweet wiki, nothing on this earth can seperate-us,except money...Love you ! Many many happy returns of the day wikipedia Darling  

 ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣ ❣

 I doubt if  Mahatma Gandhi with all his mind ( immutably , as it is ) was a  female child...
 

He must have become " Parent of the Word " than just father of one Nation ...ha ha haa

Aweesomee

Mark 11:23 [ Bible ] new international version :

Truly I tell you, if anyone says to this mountain, 'Go, throw yourself into the sea,' and does not doubt in their heart but believes that what they say will happen, it will be done for them

my today's Learning

Never Never Never Assume Things. Even the slightest slighteeeeeest mistake in our assumptions can make us see the truth... 100% opposite of what it really is...

What is good ? what is bad ? DEFINE

Nothing else is Good except that which leads you to

Enlightenment
Self- Mastery
Integrity
Courage 

All those are bad which are not directing you to 

Enlightenment
Self- Mastery
Integrity
Courage

-  Stoic Philosophy

Ignorance, the root and stem of all that is evil 

- Plato & socrates

The more I know, the more I realize I know nothing
-Socrates

" Research says consciously recognizing the emotions reduced their impact "

• Describe an emotion in just a word or two, and it helps reduce the emotion

•  Brain science shows that making decisions reduces worry and anxiety — as well as helping you solve problems.

• Trying to be perfect overwhelms your brain with emotions and makes you feel out of control.In contrast, recognizing that good enough is good enough activates more dorsolateral prefrontal areas, which helps you feel more in control …[ public administration's satisficing model of decision-making by Simon..he he hee ]
• • Then you make a decision on a goal and then achieve it, you feel better than when good stuff just happens by chance.
  And this answers the eternal mystery of why dragging your butt to the gym can be so hard.
  
  If you go because you feel you have to or you should, well, it's not really a voluntary decision. Your brain doesn't get the pleasure boost. It just feels stress. And that's no way to build a good exercise habit.Interestingly, if they are forced to exercise, they don't get the same benefits, because without choice, the exercise itself is a source of stress.
  
  • A hug, especially a long one, releases a neurotransmitter and hormone oxytocin, which reduces the reactivity of the amygdala / Get  massaged,The results are fairly clear that massage boosts your serotonin by as much as 30 percent
   
• Ask "What am I grateful for?" No answers? Doesn't matter. Just searching helps.( Lol..)
  Courtesy :Business insider : A neuroscience researcher reveals 4 rituals that will make you happier
  For full Article  :http://www.businessinsider.com/a-neuroscience-researcher-reveals-4-rituals-that-will-make-you-a-happier-person-2015-9?IR=T
   

try it ....

http://gowithtech.com/coolest-google-tricks-list/

Sukhasya Moolam Dharmah :-

The basis to all happiness is through ethics

# & the sole purpose of management is to generate happiness for all #

 - chanakya

videsheshu dhanam vidya, vyasaneShu dhanam matih
paraloke dhanam dharmah, sheelam tu nikhilam dhanam

In foreign land ; having knowledge is wealth,
 In tough times ( to get away from addictions ) the wealth needed is Intellect (Budhi )
Dharma, is the wealth for seeking heavens &  
(sheelam ) Good character is wealth all over & at all the times

Vidya vivadaya dhanam madaya Sakti paresanu para-pidanaya
Khalasya sadho viparitametat Jnanaya danaya cha Rakshanaya 

 For a wicked, 

Knowledge is to quarrel / criticize ; or to find faults in others etc

Wealth is to showoff pride ; Strength is to harass others ... Whereas

For an Angelic,

Knowledge is to gain wisdom ; 

Wealth is to Donate or help a needy &

 Strength is for defense

the Truth has been spoken ...

Roar...

--- Courtesy - facebook * laughing colors * ---

Life Lessons Advice from an 80 year old man

1. Have a firm handshake

2. Look people in the eye

3. Sing in the shower

4. Own a great stereo system

5. If in a fight, hit first and hit hard

6. Keep secrets

7. Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen everyday

8. Always accept an outstretched hand

9. Be brave. Even if you're not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference

10. Whistle

11. Avoid sarcastic remarks

12. Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery

13. Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out

14. Lend only those books you never care to see again

15. Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have

16. When playing games with children, let them win

17. Give people a second chance, but not a third

18. Be romantic

19. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know

20. Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters, nothing is as important as it first seems

21. Don't allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It's there for our convenience, not the caller's

22. Be a good loser

23. Be a good winner

24. Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret

25. When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go

26. Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born

27. Keep it simple

28. Beware of the person who has nothing to lose

29. Don't burn bridges. You'll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river.

30. Live your life so that your epitaph could read, No Regrets

31. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you'll regret the things you didn't do more than the ones you did.

32. Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.

33. Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.

34. Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you.

35. Visit friends and relatives when they are in hospital; you need only stay a few minutes.

36. Begin each day with some of your favourite music.

37. Once in a while, take the scenic route.

38. Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them, 'Someone who thinks you're terrific.'

39. Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice.

40. Keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table. Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m.

41. Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job.

42. Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later.

43. Make someone's day by paying the toll for the person in the car behind you.

44. Become someone's hero.

45. Marry only for love.

46. Count your blessings.

47. Compliment the meal when you're a guest in someone's home.

48. Wave at the children on a school bus.

49. Remember that 80 per cent of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people.

50. Don't expect life to be fair

he he hee

Hard work pays off in the long run but procrastination pays off now - unknown


(Case 1 )Hard work pays off in the long run - but

( case 2 ) procrastination pays off now 

Lool ....

  Case 1 = Dealing with shit today

Case 2 = Dealing with shit tomorrow

Morals : What ever you do...you cannot escape dealing with shit !

- Person A chose cheesy Pizza over green salad and died with obesity,diabetes ... & Person B chose salads,yoga,discipline and died in accident/by cancer caused by secondary smoke.....@ 

We all die,it is just different people die differently 

 

One should never forbid what one lacks the power to prevent
- Napoleon Bonaparte 

ha ha haaa

Climb up the stairs cheerfully, climb down the stairs cheerfully - Murat ildan

One day Thomas Edison came home and gave a paper to his mother. He told her, “My teacher gave this paper to me and told me to only give it to my mother.”

His mother’s eyes were tearful as she read the letter out loud to her child: Your son is a genius. This school is too small for him and doesn’t have enough good teachers for training him. Please teach him yourself.

After many, many years, after Edison’s mother died and he was now one of the greatest inventors of the century, one day he was looking through old family things. Suddenly he saw a folded paper in the corner of a drawer in a desk. He took it and opened it up.

On the paper was written: Your son is addled [mentally ill]. We won’t let him come to school any more.

Edison cried for hours and then he wrote in his diary: “ Thomas Alva Edison was an addled child that, by a hero mother, became the genius of the century ”

Moral : Never Give up

Remember –  Be it life, sports, career or anything .Battles must always be won twice 

– FIRST Inside the HEAD -

A deaf frog ultimately reached the pole

Even then he continued with his photoshops

One day, a group of frogs decided to make a race and get to the top of a high tower.

A lot of people came to see them and give them their support, but the race had just begun and everybody was already saying that the frogs would not get there: « It doesn’t make any sense going on! You’ll never reach the top of the tower! »

Little by little, the frogs felt disappointed and discouraged, except for one of them that continued to run. And everybody cried out: « Give up! Give up! You’ll never get to the top! » Listening repeatedly to these negative words led the frogs to abandon the race after all, except for the one frog that, despite what people were saying, and though alone and with great pain, continued to run and finally reached the top.

Deeply astonished, the other frogs wanted to know how she had managed to do it. They came to her and asked her what her secret was.

And it was then that they found out that… she was deaf!

Take a healthy life attitude: Never to listen to people who are negative in their intentions. Be deaf to discouraging words and always follow your dreams to the end.



- By Dulce Rodrigues