" because I don't know " ------is NO excuse,it has killed zillions

  ☠     Mind games are Gender neutral    ☠ 

People Can't Drive You Crazy If You Don't Give Them the Keys (some book name)

Love bombing is an attempt to influence a person by lavish demonstrations of attention and affection

Firstly, Cut that Tongue  ;)

" Before killing a sheep,they give many rewards to it " 

more : http://self-love-u.blogspot.in/2015/07/love-bombing.html

Reality denial - It means twisting reality for a particular purpose / to serve their own purposes

" If you want to kill a dog, call it mad " 

more : https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/our-emotional-footprint/201512/the-denial-reality 

Manipulation : Manipulation implies persuasion with the intent to fool, control or contrive the person on the other side of the conversation into doing something, believing something, or buying into something that leaves them either harmed or without benefit.

 [Some will misguide you even if they get nothing from it. Reason :- may be they want to see you suffer.Some piteous People get pleasure to see people they know suffer,yes such people walk on this same crust ] 


for more :http://www.jonathanfields.com/the-line-between-persuasion-and-manipulation/
http://www.drpamsf.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/EmotionalManipulators.pdf
http://www.subconscioussecurity.co.uk/subconscious-psychological-manipulation/subconscious-manipulation-tactics/ 

Anchoring : If a person starts by quoting a high price then comes down a bit, the other person is more likely to accept that second price, even if it is too high.Eg: Remo expects 5000/- from you but he begs for 50,000 ,you say NO then again begs help me atleast with 15000/- u may say I'm sorry & lastly says - not even 5000 ???at least for begging you leaving all self respect & shame ? Now u cannot say NO ! (This is just one eg. of anchoring)

more :http://www.nlpcoaching.com/can-nlp-used-manipulation-part-1/ 
 http://business.time.com/2010/09/16/how-youre-manipulated-into-buying-stuff-you-dont-want-and-paying-more-than-you-should/ 

Reframing : Changing the meaning of something(Re-Framing) and thereby changing minds / people perceptions
more :http://changingminds.org/techniques/general/reframing.htm

Brainwashing :  A systematic intense indoctrination to alter an individual's beliefs and attitudes, usually by physical and/or psychological means

more :***http://www.wikihow.com/Recognize-and-Avoid-Brainwashing  ***************** http://psychology.jrank.org/pages/93/Brainwashing.html

Mere Exposure Theory : The more exposure we have to a stimulus, the more we will tend to like it .eg: Advertisements

more : http://changingminds.org/explanations/theories/mere_exposure.htm

https://hbr.org/2013/07/the-uses-and-abuses-of-influence 

Gaslighting or gas-lighting is a form of psychological abuse in which a victim is manipulated into doubting their own memory, perception, and sanity.

Guilt trip – this manipulative behavior seeks to make you feel guilty ( especially when such guilt is self-indulgent or unjustified) in order to induce you to do something.

pouting or sulking :

It is the attempt to make the other person feel guilty for your benefit.

if you’re unhappy, you’re going to let the whole world know you’re unhappy. You wear your feelings out where everyone can see them. The intent is to get your way by making life miserable for someone else until he or she gives in and lets you have what you want.

traumatic one-trial learning - using verbal abuse, explosive anger, or other intimidating behavior to establish dominance or superiority; even one incident of such behavior can condition or train victims to avoid upsetting, confronting or contradicting the manipulator.   

Shaming: Manipulator uses sarcasm and put-downs to increase fear and self-doubt in the victim. Manipulators use this tactic to make others feel unworthy and therefore defer to them. Shaming tactics can be very subtle such as a fierce look or glance, unpleasant tone of voice, rhetorical comments, subtle sarcasm. Manipulators can make one feel ashamed for even daring to challenge them. It is an effective way to foster a sense of inadequacy in the victim. 

 

Playing the victim role ("poor me"): Manipulator portrays him- or herself as a victim of circumstance or of someone else's behavior in order to gain pity, sympathy or evoke compassion and thereby get something from another. Caring and conscientious people cannot stand to see anyone suffering and the manipulator often finds it easy to play on sympathy to get cooperation.  

Vilifying the victim:Abuse intended to offend or hurt. More than any other, this tactic is a powerful means of putting the victim on the defensive while simultaneously masking the aggressive intent of the manipulator.  

Playing the Servant Role. Covert-aggressives use this tactic to cloak their self-serving agendas in the guise of service to a more noble cause. 

Projecting the blame (blaming others): Manipulator scapegoats in often subtle, hard to detect ways. 

Feigning innocence / Ignorance or Confusion: Manipulator tries to suggest that any harm done was unintentional or that they did not do something that they were accused of.
Manipulator may put on a look of surprise or indignation. This tactic makes the victim question his or her own judgment.

https://www.facebook.com/notes/if-youre-going-to-act-like-the-worlds-biggest-dick-you-better-have-it/psychological-manipulation-in-relationships-the-psychopathic-douchebag/416435094947/

Brandishing anger: Manipulator uses anger to brandish sufficient emotional intensity and rage to shock the victim into submission. The manipulator is not actually angry, he or she just puts on an act. He just wants what he wants and gets "angry" when denied.   

 

( note :  the above are less than 1% of all the influences that are around us )

   " Intentions - more Important than Actions "

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