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 that wasn't my intention

Self serving unconscious motives are disguised as socially accepted conscious motives. Example: ( Narcissistic) Self love psychological motive of parental love, where the desire to adore & idealize oneself gets transformed into adoration & idealization of one’s children

- David J. Buller is Associate Professor of Philosophy at Northern Illinois University.