65 years Man :
You should settle SOON my child ,You SHOULD ! All people around you are well settled & Happy Parents......etc
21 years woman : uncle Ji, i just have 3 queries here :
1) What is the Universal Definition of the word "SETTLE" in accordance to a Human way of Life?
2) What is Your perception in reference to your phrase - "You should settle my child"
3) At an age of 65 yrs with children,grandchildren & some assets -
Are you settled unquestionably ?
If yes,
Do you allow me to stay in your home for 1 week to observe it with my own eyes ?
i want to learn from you what are the indicators of a settled life ?
How many are there in that List ?
How many you have among them ?
How many you think i should have from those in your list to be viewed as settled by you ? [ Because the purpose of lives of all people like us is only to live by FITTING into the Frame created by those like you,Isn't it? ]
If NO, " Ringa ringa roses, Pocket full of poses, Hush-sha bush-
Another women - see Dear, there is No wrong in your question asking for clarity on that word ....Just visit Old Age homes.......see the conditions at which people are surviving there,Get to know their personal stories...and THEN you will understand how stupid is that uncle ji's exaggerations about the word - 'settlement' .I hope you have seen the movie Mahanati ! How settled was she ? Think about it !!! Do the post mortem !!!
Just as Budha Ji said -
“ Doubt everything & Find your own light ”
"QUESTION everything,Only then you can find answers "
Awesome words by Ayn rand ↓
It is not proper for man's life to be a circle, she thought, or a strings of circles dropping off like zeros behind him—man's life must be a straight line of motion from goal to farther goal, each leading to the next and to a single growing sum, like a journey down the track of a railroad, from station to station...Look for PROGRESS , NOT perfection. Those majority Mobs you fear are like stupendous whole......“ If you write a whole line of zeroes, it's still nothing "
A million zeros joined together do not, unfortunately, add up to one. Ultimately everything depends on the quality of the individual, but our fatally shortsighted age thinks only in terms of large numbers and mass organizations, though one would think that the world had seen more than enough of what a well-disciplined mob can do in the hands of a single madman. Unfortunately, this realization does not seem to have penetrated very far - and our blindness is extremely dangerous.- C.G. Jung
The Brain's Way of Healing: Remarkable Discoveries and Recoveries from the Frontiers of Neuroplasticity : a book by Norman Doidge quoted below↓
" Actions, to be intelligent, must be performed in such a way that, at any given moment, they can be stopped or reversed—turned in the opposite direction. The secret was never to move—or live—compulsively.Living or performing actions compulsively is the opposite of doing them in a differentiated way. The compulsive action, unlike the differentiated one, is always done the same way, and ironically, because so much mental effort is used, it is often performed mechanically, with little awareness "
“It's lame when you try so hard to get what you want, and then when you get it, you realize you need something else even harder to get.” - Stewart Lewis
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