LOVE Self-Esteem Destroyers:- Because feeling terrible about yourself never felt so good!

Have you ever felt like you're a part of a Big-GAME where everyone is trying to figure things out and be in charge? 

Well, you're not alone. 

This game is called Life, and we're all players in it. We face challenges and interact with different people every day, and sometimes, it can feel like a constant battle to stay ahead. 

 But what if I told you that it doesn't have to be this way? What if I told you that you could use these experiences to your advantage and become a better player in the game of Life?  

The truth is people play games all the time. From the board games we play with our family to the mind games Mr Chakri plays at work, games are an integral part of our lives. And just like in any game, we can use rules and strategies to improve our chances of success. 

 One of the most important aspects of any game is understanding the different players involved. In Life, we encounter people from all walks of Life, each with their own set of motivations, desires, and goals. By learning how to recognize these different players and their behaviours, we can better anticipate their moves and respond accordingly.  

For example, have you ever dealt with someone who always seems to be trying to manipulate you? Maybe they use guilt trips, passive-aggressive comments, comparisons, Gaslighting, speaking to destroy your self-esteem, threatening, fake praises, future faking, Love-bombing, Projecting, Triangulation, Playing the victim, Hoarding information, Invalidating, Bait-and-switch, tactics to confuse, Emotional blackmail, Scapegoating, Flattery to get their way. These players are often called "manipulators", and they can be incredibly frustrating to deal with. But by learning how to recognize their tactics and responding in a calm and assertive manner, Briefly & softly, you can minimize their impact and take control of the situation. 

 Another important aspect of any game is learning how to manage your emotions. In Life, we face all sorts of challenges that can trigger our anxiety, anger, or sadness. But by learning how to control these emotions and respond in a rational and logical manner, we can avoid making hasty decisions that we might later regret.  

So, next time you find yourself in a challenging situation, remember that you're a player in the game of Life. Take a deep breath, assess the situation, and think about the different players involved. By understanding their motivations and behaviours, you can develop strategies that will help you stay ahead of the game. 

 In the end, Life is a game that we all must play. But by learning how to play it well, we can become more skilled, confident, and booming players. So, embrace the challenges and opportunities that come your way, and remember that every experience is a chance to learn and grow.

Be the Light even for Others

Any form of manipulation gives the perpetrator a sense of superiority from being able to control the reaction of others