when the old negative - Nancy - Insults U --- surprise her with B- positive replies like "Oh, I LOVE when you insult me!"

Is it essential to use Socratic questioning to understand our collective human unconsciousness?

Reactive neurosis is a fascinating term that highlights how our brains react strongly to the world around us, influencing our emotions and thoughts.

It's crucial to recognize that individuals' attitudes towards avoiding responsibilities are not arbitrary. They are often deeply influenced by their unique life experiences, which can leave lasting imprints on their psyche.

1) Despite facing incredibly tough circumstances, some individuals have shown remarkable resilience, leaving behind both visible and invisible scars. These experiences may lead them to use evasive language to hide their pain, making it difficult for them to open up. This may be why some people remain NEUTRAL when witnessing injustice.

 2) In some cases, individuals may appear to believe that others deserve to suffer, but in reality, these actions may stem from their hardships, FEARS,or such other feelings, etc. 

Research strongly suggests that when dealing with individuals who display evasive behaviours and negative attitudes, it is not just crucial but a moral imperative to approach them with compassion, understanding, and positivity. It is also important to acknowledge that these individuals may have challenges supporting others and taking responsibility for negative circumstances, situations, or events. 

Please remember this QUOTE :

As Carl Jung said, 

"  The healthy man does not torture others - 

generally, it is the tortured who turn into torturers." 

Sick people do all these below: 

1) Blame shifting: When someone evades their responsibility by blaming others.

2) Selective hearing: Only listening to what aligns with their own views and ignoring the rest. 

3) Gaslighting: Manipulating someone into questioning their reality.

4) Projection: Attributing one's own feelings or traits to others.

5) Emotional abuse: Using words or actions to cause emotional harm.

6) Word salad: Confusing or nonsensical speech used for manipulation or deception. 

7) Silent treatment: Punishing or manipulating by refusing to engage in communication.

Reacting positively to the hurtful experiences people encounter, often due to those who avoid responsibility for their actions, is a powerful choice. 𝐖𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐝𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐦𝐲𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬, 𝐞𝐯𝐚𝐬𝐢𝐯𝐞, 𝐨𝐫 𝐡𝐮𝐫𝐭𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐛𝐞𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬 & 𝐧𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬. By approaching individuals with empathy, we acknowledge the influence of their hardships in their lives. This shared experience can then create a transformative environment of support and growth for everyone involved.