I WANT.............

Question from ----:
Wanted to ask you one question which is bothering me for so many years. No amount of dreaming or positive thinking is helping me. Past 20 years, I'm dreaming of a house of my own. I'm now 45 yrs old . When will I get a house ? Why did I never get one ? Sometimes I feel maybe its my past life deed. I feel hopeless some times. I'm a simple hardworking honest sincere person. Where do I go wrong ? All my friends have houses of their own. Why don't I have one ?

Dear ------- ,
All of us are creators that are capable of manifesting what we want. Practically every dream that we have in mind has already been manifested by someone out there. If there is a strong enough desire within us for something, it is indeed possible for us to attract it into our lives. We just have to get aligned with source and remove all obstacles that are in the way - most of which are internal. We must however remember that the universe delivers what we deserve and not what we need. It is the subconscious blocks that stop us from manifesting what we want. When we are internally aligned with what we want, it will not be too long before the universe delivers what we want. 

One can work with both the left and right brain (or mind versus spirit if you prefer) to move towards what is wanted. On the left brain side, goal setting is important. It is important that we clearly describe in writing what is wanted, and by when. We can look into how much money it take to be able to purchase what we want. Then we can analyze as to how we can earn the additional income in the said time, which would in turn translate to brining more value to the marketplace. This may require learning additional skills that we currently do not possess, in doing more of the things that people of affluence do. 

On the creative/right brain side, visualization will help. Cut out pictures of what could be your dream house. Create a collage/vision board. Take a look at the vision board with positive emotion atleast 2-3 times a days. Go to open houses every weekend. Imagine having the money in the bank to purchase what you want. Write yourself a check for the amount of the house. Imagine already living in the house with great joy and enthusiasm. Write down as many ways as you can think of manifesting what is wanted. Especially practice the visualization early morning and late night, as the subconscious blocks are typically less active at that time. Whenever you get a negative thought (such as the hopelessness you mentioned), go back to the vision board and imagine joyfully enjoying your dream house. And do let us all know when your dream comes true!

With Love,
Sudhir.Krishnan