Go to heaven for the climate and hell for the company :D see GooD in every situation...

Stop BEING Sensitive....those who are Oversensitive, DO NOT DESERVE life / surviving on planet earth

There's some movie quote, neku telise untundi : Recollect & Remember

" Bayam Unnodu Arustadu,
Balam Unnodu Baristadu "

weakness ∝ Noise

 ( weakness is directly proportional to the level of Noise Made by the People )
but the " STRONG: always imperturbable "


“ The person who does not value himself/herself, cannot value anything or anyone ” - Ayn Rand

I promise you nothing is as chaotic as it seems. Nothing is worth diminishing your health. Nothing is worth poisoning yourself into stress, anxiety, and fear

- Steve Maraboli

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→ 'Life happens. Shit happens. And it happens a lot. To a lot of people ' - Colleen Hoover

see..... whenever Shit happens  😂😂😂 

there are 3 ways to deal with it according to  Sir.Viktor Emil Frankl  :

1) Dereflection : IGNORE 

 It is by ceasing to think about the problem / it is putting the issue aside or Forgetting yourself while getting absorbed in some other activity you love or Serving people you love 

eg: One whose entire family died in an accident starts focussing on religious activities, social work, music, dance, cooking etc

2) paradoxical intention - Detachment with Humour - Go the complete opposite way -wish for which you are really afraid as Fear & wish are incompatible, Distance self from problem using humor :

eg: Archana/me got cancer kind of some big disease & she is afraid of death..Lol : she/I should start to think::

 daridram vadilipoindi , sooper 😂  - No more worries to live, no more responsibilities, career - thokka thotakuraa...NOTHING !!! if suppose she dies in 1 month, she starts to think...yahooo for this 1 month I'm unstoppable & gonna do whatever I want, The first thing I shall do is to behave like i have gone mad & Beat like hell those !@#$%^&** people @TriSHOOLAdandana, cooking Jandhyala's aratipandu lamba lamba & making them eat it
  (also like that girl in Geetanjali movie 😂 ) .In that 1 month,Like Aparichit, I would prepare & take with me atleast 30 Most harmful people on earth like extremely selfish-narcissists, psychos,serial rapists etc by making them drink kumbhipaakam made out of their own kidneys,liver  etc 😂 [Background song : idhi ranarangam ranachadarangam...jargalsinde shara vidwamsam..churakattula yuddam shatruvu siddam,idi ma ranahomam..ravan kastaanni .. rakshsa kastanni...cheyalsina narudu (female) yamakinkarudu ramudu Ee -amma ye raa ] 😂 

or Jahnavi imagining her boss getting frustrated at her work, as usual...while imagining the situation negatively-exaggerating or negatively-understating, adding humor to that imagination  or imagine she says to herself : I think I'm gonna  lose 10 lakhs in share market & now I should imagine my dad's face when I tell him this ;) :p (i should show 3 idiots scene to him & tell him to put a hand on his heart & say "ALLZ WELL 3 times hahaaa ) " 😂 

3) Socratic/maieutic questioning  - ascertain & postmortem the situation - find the Root cause analysis, make a list of fate (what is NOT in your hands) vs freedom (choices - what is in your hands to act upon, write all meaningful activities you can do),Notice strengths & possibilities,Take different perspectives to question self  by self

eg: Ask 'why' five times about every matter as given here :

( http://www.toyota-global.com/company/toyota_traditions/quality/mar_apr_2006.html) Keep questioning & answering on a piece of paper till you get the final truth after which you cannot make any more questions

They died less from lack of food or medicine than from lack of hope, lack of something like at least a self-created MEANING to live for...any suffering ceases to be suffering at the moment it finds a meaning - He who has a why to live for can bear almost any HOW