Yasodharā - my lesson will, unfortunately, remain unknown

When I heard the story of Gautam Buddha, my question was always about his wife and son that he left behind...this write-up by Vikram Bhattacharya touches that part of the story 

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He left her in the middle of the night, 
the night their son was born
When she heard the news
she was devastated.

Yet, she did not complain but her life
lost all meaning. The only reason
for her to live now was her
son. She wanted him to grow up
to be a man that the world would
look up to.

Her friends and relatives came
around and asked her to forget
about the man who had left her
and start life again.

They asked her to marry again
but she refused. She was young
& beautiful & suitors queued up
outside her door, but she refused each one of them.

Then one fine day he came back !

He stood in front of her and she could hardly remember him as the man who had left her. “They call you the Buddha now?” she asked him gently.

“I hear they do,”

he answered in a calm fashion.

“What does it mean?” she further inquired.

“I think it means the enlightened one, a knower,” he informed.

She smiled and then a silence...
“I suppose we have both learned something. Your lessons O Buddha will make the world richer in spirit, but my lesson will, unfortunately, remain largely unknown.”

she reflected deeply....

“ And what lesson is that ? ”

The Buddha probed.

Her eyes sparkled with unshed tears, 

“ That a Woman does not need anyone to complete her..... SHE IS COMPLETE ON HER OWN  ”

Courtesy:
 https://www.facebook.com/Bharulata/posts/703717273063734



" In some ways, suffering ceases to be suffering at the moment it finds a meaning, such as the meaning of a sacrifice ”  



"  The one thing you can’t take away from me is the way I choose to respond to what you do to me. The last of one’s freedoms is to choose one’s attitude in any given circumstance ,the freedom which determined whether or not you become the plaything to circumstance " 
- Viktor E. Frankl