How to be unaffected by the words of Cynics?

 See all those cynics the way you see a menu card in a hotel and choose only those words & people who support you be healthy & happy. I can choose a vegetarian dish even in a nonvegetarian hotel, you know? - [ Psychologist  Dr. Abhishek Ganeshan ]

•  Live like a child, experimenting & exploring everything. 
•  Have Unconditional Acceptance of Self & Others
• Think about how you can turn the negative into positive?
• Don’t value the negative words or judgments of others. They are telling you their insecurities & fears etc- their story, absolutely not your cup of tea 
• Have responsibility for your emotions. They depend on your Rational or Irrational beliefs & judgments

Example: Irrational Rigid beliefs :

• I MUST be loved, 
• I SHOULD be Accepted, 
• The world MUST be fair, 
• They MUST be trustworthy & good

Rational Flexible beliefs : 

•  I want to be Approved of but I don’t have to be --- it is ok,
•  I want them to love me but they won't – it is ok, so what? 
•  I want them to be trustworthy? But they are NOT – it is ok, that's fine. What i do is my karma & what they do is their karma

Avesam tho edi sadhinchalev nuvvu

To smile at injustice is not shamelessness...It is Strength...

Just smile...Do NOT  React ^^^  just  ^^ RESPOND

( Shamelessness is to smile when you are wrong not when you are right...so smile )

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Ariadne: Who are the people?

Dom Cobb: They are projections of my subconscious.

Ariadne: Yours?

Dom Cobb: Yes. Remember you are the dreamer you build this world. I am the subject my mind populates it. You can literally talk to my subconscious, that's one of the ways to extract information from the subject.

Ariadne: What else do you do?

Dom Cobb: By creating something secure like a...lika a bank vault or a jail. The mind automatically fills it with information it's trying to protect.

- from Inception