Books: the original trustworthy anti-social social network

Remember that our early relationships with caregivers, such as parents or guardians, shape our beliefs about others.

For instance, a child who grows up with a nurturing and supportive caregiver may develop a positive outlook on others, while a child who experiences neglect or abuse may develop a more negative view. These early beliefs can significantly impact our interactions later in life. 

Reading is a transformative experience, a dance of connections with narrators, authors, characters, and other readers. It's not just about the words on the page but the emotions and thoughts they evoke. This is why certain books captivate us, deeply influencing our feelings and thoughts and, in turn, enriching our real-life relationships and self-image. 

When men and women are alone, their emotional experiences can be quite different. For women, solitude may bring on feelings of loneliness due to a lack of meaningful connections or activities that bring them joy. There's also a sense of unease when they feel they're not fully utilizing their skills and talents, leading to an ongoing desire for more, even if they have many friends or indulge in lavish spending. It's like drinking salt water to quench thirst – the more you drink, the thirstier you get. 

Perhaps women may not realize that their actual needs come from within rather than relying on external factors.